Estimates place the additional spending in the family of a newborn at $5,600 for the first year.

Between clothes that never have time to wear out and diapers that last for minutes, very few of us have the resources to provide everything that we wish we could for our little ones.

The greatest gift we can give our children is our love and; time. Here are some ideas which might help you save money as well!

Buy Used

To those of us who never bought used clothing for ourselves, it might seem odd to wrap the most precious child in the world in something less than brand new.

As long as you are careful about who you buy from and wash everything before it’s used, you’ll find this can be one of the best ways to save money for more important things.

Babies and children outgrow clothing so quickly and get so messy while doing so, that once you’re comfortable with it, it will seem silly to pay 25.00 for an outfit you could get for just a few dollars.

Make sure whomever you buy from has a good reputation. They should provide pictures and details about the condition. And always wash everything before your sweetheart wears it–new or used!

Trade and Recycle

There are so many sites that allow mothers to trade items their children no longer need for what they do need, right now!

Everyone knows about Craigslist, but it’s a great place to not only purchase but trade your unneeded items for what you do need.

Be open about what you need and specific about what you want to trade. And always, always be careful when meeting a total stranger!

A worldwide organization that has local chapters nearly everywhere. Each one is full of kind people who are completely ready and willing to give things away for free! The whole point is to keep perfectly good but unneeded items out of landfills, so make sure when you’re done with something you pass it on too! And don’t go asking for big-screen TVs or cash – that’s frowned upon and just in bad taste!


So many things we buy or receive as gifts, but end up not needing really. Here is a common list of things that you can safely skip until you know if you really need them! Remember, it’s so easy to go overboard, but as long as he’s warm and fed, the only thing he really needs is your love and attention!

Crib shoes:

Sure, they look cute, but it’s going to be a long time before your beautiful sweetheart is going to be walking. And even then, many experts suggest your little one learn to walk barefoot to prevent many foot problems. So socks, for now, shoes for later!

Infant bedding sets:

To prevent SIDs risk, there should be nothing in the crib beside your baby and a sheet below him or her. All those blankets, pillows and bumpers are just going to end up in a pile on the floor! To keep your baby warm, consider wearable blankets or bunting.

Stocking up too soon

Bottles, pacifiers, and formula:

You can have a few of these on hand, but don’t go overboard or you might find yourself with two dozen beautiful, expensive bottles that your sweetheart won’t even put into her mouth or formula she spits ever-so-elegantly all over the both of you.

Newborn size clothes:

Some babies are born too big to fit into these comfortably. It’s better to split newborn and 3-month items so you have a variety of sizes available. There is no need to gather too many newborn items until you see your little one’s size and how they grow. Some babies are long and skinny, some are short and fat–your sweetie may surprise you!


Some moms swear by Panders, and some can’t live without Huggies. Since they actually fit differently, some babies are shaped better for one or the other. It’s a good idea to buy diapers in bulk, but wait until he arrives so you don’t end up with the wrong brand.

Go Green!

Cloth diapers:

Not only are these great for the earth, but most families save hundreds of dollars – even more if you are planning on more than one angel because they can be reused on the second baby after the first baby if well cared for!


Breastfeeding saves families $1,600-6,000 in the first 12 months of your baby’s life and is considered the healthiest choice by the World Health Organization for all babies.

Any amount of breastfeeding is beneficial and; every ounce you don’t have to buy is money in your pocket.

The benefits of breastfeeding go far beyond saving money, but that is a bonus.

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Now that the Holidays are around the corner, you probably find yourself in a huge hole deciding on what gifts to buy and where to buy them.

There will be parties, dinners, and outings – they won’t be cheap.

Here are some tips on how to save some money for the Holidays.

Wear a Sweater

Tempting as it may be, the thermostat can quickly empty your wallet.

Especially in the winter when the weather is cold, you find that every month your heating bill increases because you are too lazy to put on some clothes.

It may not be a sweater. Pull out that favorite hoodie you had stocked away for occasions like these, and walk around the house in style. Even better, wear a ski mask as an accessory.

Keeping warm can be done in a variety of ways, and upping the temperature on your thermostat should be the last choice.

Cut down on dining out

Why are you still eating out so much?

With Thanksgiving and Christmas approaching mighty fast, it would be in your best interest to cut down on the amount you eat out.

Not only will it save money in your wallet to buy gifts for those you care about, but your waistline will also thank you for it.

Save some stomach for the good stuff!

Use cash or debit cards

When you shop for gifts, always use cash or debit cards.

For one, cash will never fail you. Once you’ve paid, you’re in the clear.

By not restricting yourself to the assets you already own, you run the risk of getting carried away during the Holiday Season and building up loads of credit card bills that roll around with 18% interest. What a way to bring in the new year.

As for debit cards (usually linked to a checking account), most of them have cashback or rewards programs, something to keep an eye on when you buy things during the year.

If you purchase enough items using your debit card, you will usually have some sort of perk that you can use to buy other things, say, Christmas gifts.

“Day After” shopping

If your family doesn’t mind, you can always take them Christmas shopping the day after Christmas.

Although a bit counter-intuitive, the deals you will find will probably be somewhere between 20%-70%.

Christmas is a tradition that many people love to enjoy, but giving them presents 1 day after?

It doesn’t bother many people at all.

Wrapping paper is expensive

If you can, try to give gifts that won’t require you to wrap them.

And if you really must, add a touch of humor to your gifts by wrapping them with the Comics section of the newspaper.

If your gift is for a person who enjoys sports, you can wrap the gift up in pages from a Sports Magazine.

Ribbons, bows, and cellophane (warning: will reveal your gift item) are all good and inexpensive ideas to choose from.

The main thing to understand when giving a gift is that it should be creative more than anything else.

Consider online shopping

Many people don’t want to go through the hassle of ordering or buying things online, but these days, it’s rare not to find a deal online.

Some sites even offer discounts to new customers and free shipping when you order over a certain limit.

Places such as eBay and Amazon are still running a profitable business, so they must be doing something correctly, right?

Besides, buying gifts online saves you the hassle of going around to various stores and scouring for deals.

Everything is available for a query at your fingertips, and they ship right to your door, saving you gas money.

Know relative values

As Christmas fast approaches, you shouldn’t be surprised to see SALE signs everywhere you look.

Even places that never seem to give any discounts whatsoever seem to be putting up Moneysaver postings.

Be smart when shopping, and don’t fall into traps. A store could raise its selling price of something 30% then give a 10% discount.

So in effect, you’re actually paying more than what you should be at market price.

If you know how much something costs without any of the markups or markdowns, then you know what is a good deal and what isn’t.

Don’t be so quick to rush in when you see big red signs everywhere.

Other rather useful tips

– If you are looking to travel, book early! Although it is a bit late to say that now…

– Buy a ticket to a show or an event as a gift. These may be a bit more expensive, but they are a breath of fresh air compared to the usual material gift that is useless. Someone will actually enjoy something.

– Make gifts yourself. If you have a special hobby such as knitting, sewing, or carpentry, you can always spend some time to give a gift that has meaning. It should be made with care and love.

Whatever you do this Holiday Season, keep in mind that you should remember to have fun and keep sociable – what the Holidays are all about.

Too often people lose sight of what this time of year actually means by splurging on gifts and going on spending sprees.

Don’t get caught up in the moment – think about the future.

P.S. Your Retirement says Thank you.

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